There are countless of men out there who are in a committed relationship. However, they cannot for some reason, stay loyal to their spouse. For men like this, there are several options. One of them is getting a side chick. Side chicks are everywhere you look. Problem is that a vast majority of them don’t advertise what they are. In most cases, mistresses are kept secret by both parties for various reason.
Whatever your opinion may be on the matter, the men who like side chicks will do what they do no matter what. Truth is there is nothing any person can do to stop the males from being unfaithful. In the event that you want to have a side lover, here are some tips on having one.
Careful Where You Bring Her
The first rule of having a side chick is to never bring her around where you normally bring your mate. Women have been known to have a sixth sense about things like this. It’s very easy for your wife or girlfriend to pick up on things. Perhaps it’s a look or whatever, but girls are like cats with an ability to smell a rat. There are instances where you may be the one jealous if you see your side chick talking to single guys.
Remember Her Special Days
Just because she is the other woman doesn’t mean you should forget special days in her life. Remember things such as her birthday and other special occasions. The only thing you need to keep in mind is to never place those days over your wife or girlfriend.
One of the biggest mistakes a man makes with a mistress is putting her on a schedule. He begins visiting her or taking her out on certain days. Sometimes, he even sets those days apart for her. The problem is two-fold. For one, your side chick may come to expect it and may demand even more time from you. Secondly, your girlfriend or spouse may become suspicious as to why you go out on the same days.
Refrain From Dream Selling
It’s a common error for males who are married with a mistress to sell them dreams. They tell them that they would marry them if they were not already in a committed relationship. Even if you do mean it, you should avoid telling them. Sooner or later she may want to start holding you to it and plan for the future.
Let Her Go If She Asks
Chances are your side chick will one day wake up and get tired of being the other woman. Perhaps she will meet someone and will want to move on. If she asks you to let her go, do it. Don’t be selfish and try to convince her otherwise. You are being egotistical and setting yourself up for problems later. In the same way you got that side chick, you can always get a new one.